Despite the fact that it evolved through time and between cultures, marriage is a fundamental social institution that has existed for as long as we have had historical records, whether in secular sources or the Bible.
Marriage is seen as a milestone for everybody who has reached a specific age and is, thus, expected of them to do like their predecessors. Whether or not they are prepared for that stage of their lives depends on how quickly they can adapt to the norm and start having children in order to carry on the lineage.
If you’re prepared, wonderful; if not, this is the start of problems that is yet to be revealed.
The common belief is that everyone aspires to meet their perfect soul mate, get married, and have a happy, long-lasting marriage. Marriage isn’t always the best choice for everyone, so if you’re not sure whether you want to be married, you should think about the most telling indication—COMMITMENT—that you’re not suited to the demands of marriage—not only for getting married, but for staying married.
The key to a successful marriage is to maintain the strength of the couple’s connection even in the face of hardship. So, for a marriage to succeed, it has to be a place where the pair may disagree, get angry, and have controversies without being judged. After that, it may develop and produce positive fruit.
The strongest bonds that unite two people for life or till death do them part are formed in the beginning stages of the finest marriages. The majority of marriages I see today do not last, not because of a lack of love, but rather because of a failure to recognize early warning signs before they turn into a huge billboard that everyone can see and judge for themselves.
A marriage that isn’t founded on an indebt personal choice would raise certain red flags, a few of which are listed below.
It’s being practiced by everyone. …
Since you’ve been dating for “too long,” you believe you should get married. …
The thought of not getting married is driving your family crazy. …
Your relationship issues are something you believe this will resolve. …
They’re all married, all of your friends. …
The truth is that marriage isn’t intended for just one person; rather, it may be for anybody who is willing to go on a lifelong adventure. For couples who decide to remain married, most churches provide marital counseling, which is the proper course of action since it will help the pair see more clearly what they are about to embark on.
A 100% commitment is necessary for it to succeed, since forever is a long time. In addition, the following indicators are some that you should watch out for.
1) You admire and respect each other.
2) You maintain an open line of communication.
3) You are aware of each other.
4) You consistently prioritize and support one another.
5) There is a healthy balance between your finance and obligations.
6) You have a good level of emotional and physical intimacy.
7) You have trust in each other.
8) You fight and play in a healthy and productive manner.
9) You value each other and the work you put into the relationship.
10) Difficulties in your relationship bring you closer together.
Only cut ties in your relationship if they are poisonous to you and is killing you if you’ve tried everything else and it hasn’t worked.
Las Las, all is vanity and na for this world everything go end.
Be yourself and let love lead.
