Category: ROAYFG

Happy New Year! It’s been so long and I’m sure you’ve missed me. You have, don’t deny it. You know, everyone makes new year…

Do you remember when Obinze’s mum and Ifemelu had the sex talk in Chimamanda Adichie’s book, Americanah? She told Ifemelu that it takes both…

Relationships are complicated as hell. It doesn’t matter what side of the divide you fall into, male or female, Gay or Straight, relationships are…

The whole notion of Marriage as an achievement has always sounded ridiculous to me. Don’t get me wrong; I do believe marriage to be…

 Dear Atheist,  I think it’s perfectly fine to not believe in God or in the existence of any god. I think it’s okay for…

I remember the way I felt when the doctor said I was Positive; the way he said Positive like I was automatically supposed to know what it meant and truthfully, I did…I can’t say I have spent my days being sad and crying.

He says he’s finally ready to have sex. When he came to me to enquire how to go about it, I wasn’t shocked or surprised; I was happy for him. Not because he’s about to have sex, which I think is highly overrated by the way, but because he first sought counsel on something he knew nothing of.

There was traffic on Ogui road that night, a Dangote truck had again fallen across the road, blocking both passengers going to and fro,…

By far the worst thing we do to males — by making them feel they have to be hard — is that we leave…

Hello, I’m Terry Kalum, you can call me Terry. Welcome to my safe space. A little disclaimer though, I’ll be talking about a lot…